I could just sum this up by saying I did a lot of nothing, but the truth is that, as much as I love doing nothing, I can't sustain it for very long. Here are some of the thrilling activities and events that I could have been writing about during my absence. (Not necessarily in the order they occurred.)
1. We had the rare and unexpected pleasure of a (sort of) White Christmas in New Orleans. What actually made it (sort of) white were the tiny balls of sleet that fell for hours before the flakes arrived. The flakes fell for about an hour and melted immediately. We spent the day at my brother's house where little Rachel, desperate for a snow experience, scooped the accumulated sleet off of cars and patted it into ersatz snowballs to hurl at her cousins. (Actually, we were all pretty excited by this very rare event. Just two days earlier, the temperature had been in the 70s. Two days later, it was in the 70s again. That's winter in New Orleans.)
I had the additional pleasure of having the central heat unit on the first floor of my house go buggy at the same time as the freeze and snow/sleet event. The best we managed was to get the temperature in the den up to about 60 degrees. Thank God heat rises and we have a bathroom upstairs.
2. I crocheted two scarves and two hats and I knitted one afghan. That's right, I actually completed
them. This is a real accomplishment for me, as I am a great starter but pathetic when it comes to finishing projects. I've started knitting two more afghans. We'll see what happens.
3. I discovered through extensive research that the plant growing in the place where we buried our beloved pet hamster, Katie (who, by the way, lived more than a year beyond the normal hamster life expectancy) along with her bedding and seed stash, is sorghum
4. I read two works of fiction
for a change. (I mentioned these earlier... the two latest Tom Robbins novels, which I highly recommend, especially if you like really loopy and creative stories written by someone who elevates use of the English language to its highest art form.)
5. I did one of the most empowering things I've ever done. I bought #6 and #8 Torx screwdrivers, those magical little keys that unlock the innards of Apple computers, and I, just me, myself, without help, installed a new power board on my laptop. I've never hesitated to do any kind of upgrade that requires you to just open the machine (accessing the parts anyone can get to) and snap/plug some component in and out. But this was not that sort of thing. This required poking around in the forbidden innards, the ones that ordinary humans cannot access. I have to admit that the repair was really easy. But I felt like a computer demi-goddess nonetheless. Now I might have to make a t-shirt that says "I own my own Torx screwdrivers" so that I can be identified by other Apple computer demi-gods and goddesses.
6. I put together a kind of funky little song using Garage Band without ever leaving my bed or plugging a real instrument into my laptop. It took about 45 minutes and I admit that it was not just simple drag and drop, as I did alter and adulterate some of the stock loops (both MIDI and audio) before dragging and dropping. To me, the facility with which this can be done is nothing short of amazing. This program is so cheap and it (along with 4 or 5 others) comes standard on all new Macs now. (But my preference is still to make music the new old-fashioned way, meaning with real instruments and rhythm sequences that I create myself.)
Here's a little piece of the song
, for your listening pleasure. It's only 1:26 long, for bandwidth's sake.
7. I worked on my original songs. Still don't have anything I consider finished
, but no one should be surprised by that.
8. Got another bad cold/sinus infection. That's two in a period of six weeks. Or maybe the family germs that we've been circulating around here have never really been vanquished. We probably just keep passing mutated versions of the same bug around, and will ultimately create the ultra- uber-germ in our mad laboratory.
9. Renard and I celebrated our 3rd anniversary. We've contemplated breaking up a couple of times this year and even said we would at one point but we continued doing everything just as we always had because to do anything else just felt so unnatural. I've said it before and I'll say it again; we are just so good together.
Remembering this makes it so
easy to forget the occasional paradigm differences that shake us up.
10. I renewed the New Year's Resolution I made way back in 1979, one that I decided was the last I'd ever need to make, which I guess makes it a life's resolution
Here it is: Take nothing and no one for granted.
If you live by this resolution, it keeps your focus on gratitude and off of complaining. But I would hope that the terrible tradgedy of the Tsunami really brings the power of this resolution into focus for everyone on this planet right now. Nothing in my lifetime has demonstrated in a more visceral way, the truth that you can have everything in one moment and nothing -nothing
an instant later. Including your life and those you love.
Moral of the story: Never let love get more than an arm's length away (if that) and never forget that nothing
is guaranteed. Love and treasure everyone and all your blessings, always. This kind of gratitude is a great antidote for pain, discontent, grievance and anger.
And on that note...
Thanks for reading. I love and appreciate you all!